When More Containment Is Needed

When More Containment Is Needed

There are moments in EMDR work when it becomes clear that the question isn’t whether the method will work, but whether the environment can hold what the work will activate. EMDR is powerful precisely because it moves quickly and deeply. That strength, in certain...
What Does This Say About You?

What Does This Say About You?

I was watching an episode of Malcolm in the Middle: Season 6 Episode 12, “Living Will.” The father, Hal, was given power of attorney by a neighbor and he had to decide if his neighbor should remain on life support or not. Being a comedic show Hal went through quite...
 What the Body Has to Carry

 What the Body Has to Carry

EMDR is often described as emotionally intense, but it is also physically demanding in ways that are easy to underestimate. Reprocessing doesn’t just move through memory and meaning. It moves through the body. Muscles tense and release. Breathing shifts. Fatigue sets...
Phil’s Clown Phobia

Phil’s Clown Phobia

I was watching an episode of Modern Family recently: Fizbo, Season 1, Episode 9. Phil is throwing his son, Luke, a birthday party and his uncle, Cameron, offers to dress as a clown for the party as a birthday present for Luke. Cameron transforms into Fizbo, “a...
Who Holds the Client Between Sessions?

Who Holds the Client Between Sessions?

EMDR doesn’t end when the session does. That’s something most of us learn quickly, even if we don’t always talk about it explicitly. Once reprocessing begins, material continues to move. Memories link. Emotional states surface at inconvenient times. The nervous system...