Learning the Client’s Language

Learning the Client’s Language

Every client walks into therapy with a language of their own.  Not necessarily a different vocabulary, but a particular way of describing their experiences.  Certain words repeat. Images appear. Metaphors emerge. A phrase that seems ordinary at first ...
When More History Isn’t More Helpful

When More History Isn’t More Helpful

Here’s something many EMDR therapists recognize: A client knows something is important, but  they can’t quite explain why. They may have an image that keeps returning. A reaction that feels  bigger than the present moment. A sense that something...
 When the Therapist Isn’t Ready

 When the Therapist Isn’t Ready

Readiness for EMDR reprocessing is often framed as something the client either has or doesn’t. But the longer I’ve done this work, the clearer it’s become that readiness is shared. EMDR asks something of the therapist’s nervous system too, and there are moments when...
When Readiness Was Never Built

When Readiness Was Never Built

Not every nervous system arrives in therapy with the same developmental foundation. Some clients are not unready because something went wrong recently, but because certain capacities were never fully built in the first place. When we think about readiness for EMDR...
When There Isn’t Room to Continue

When There Isn’t Room to Continue

EMDR doesn’t unfold in a single moment. It asks for space. For continuity. For the nervous system to return, again and again, to what has been opened and to carry that movement forward. When that space isn’t available, readiness becomes more fragile than it first...